My early morning runs are an out
and back affair - out two miles and then back two miles. My turn-around spot is
marked by a pleasant visit with a large mixed-breed very old scruffy dog, who
lies just inside her wrought iron gate. She hears my running shoes as soon as
they hit her driveway, and she is up, with her snoot out the bars of the gate,
tail wagging, waiting to give me her morning kiss, (and for the two biscuits
she knows I have in my pocket for her.) This morning on my approach I was
alarmed to see she wasn't in her usual shady spot, waiting. Instead, there on
the gate was a hand-written poem entitled "Dear Friends of Dutchess..." It was
a lovely tribute to a beloved living creature who touched many lives with her
grandness and love. I left her two cookies beside a single rose that another
stranger-friend had laid in her spot, and ran home blinded with tears over the
loss of such a gentle friend.
The thing is, we all touch people in
endless ways. Dutchess's owners didn't know all her friends, only that she had
many. Even the least among us, and Dutchess was anything but that, have
unceasing power to give love and to receive love. Love is all around us if we
but leave ourselves open to it. I have lost a dear friend - no one will ever
take her place, but the wondrous thing about the human heart is its' uncounted
compartments, and something else will come along to make its own special place.
Dutchess's spot will still be there.
Moral of the story?.......I don't
know. I suspect there are many. But the lesson I learned through my tears this
morning was this - We can never be certain how great the power or influence we
have on others. A stranger's touch is sometimes the most powerful in our lives.
The people we touch, and are touched, by matter greatly.